What I like about my 40’s is I’ve figured out what I like and don’t like.

I unapologetically spend my time the way I want to.  I’ve shed the restraints of others’ expectations.

Because I feel the limits of my energy, I don’t waste my time.

I’ve stepped away from unworthy people. My circle is smaller but, oh, so much better.

On a cloud of gratitude and hard-earned perspective, I float above the trivial.

In my 40’s, I’ve learned that by living for myself—by making my welfare the priority—I can patiently and lovingly show up for others.  

Now I understand, mothering does not have to be an all-consuming martyrdom.

Now I know I cannot fix anyone but myself. Gone is the  weight of other peoples’ issues, shrugged off my shoulders like a heavy winter coat on a warm Spring day.

I am free of the stress caused by the illusion of being in control.  

In my 40’s, I slow down more often. I relish simple pleasures like a nap, a good sale, a bite of a friend’s dessert.

I notice more—the  birds, the changing colors in the sky, the sparkling sound of a loved one’s laughter.

I’m comfortable in my 40’s.

I feel I have arrived.

I feel peace.

I see more beauty than ever before
in this world and myself.  

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