In times like these, I remember the words of John, but I switched them up a bit to fit the situation, "As soon as it's over, they make you feel small."
And then, the proverbial, "You were super, such a great guy, but not in this life, Mister."
You gave everything you had & then some, to end up lonesome & feeling used again.
So, bring it on Bob..... I'm getting used to this kind of stuff, am forever running against the wind.