If I could give you just one piece of advice,
It would be this —
Don’t fall in love in this lifetime.

In this lifetime, be soft, and be kind.
Don’t be in a rush — go slow, take your time.
Don’t tie yourself down — go explore, and go travel.
Take risks, and be open — let your spirit unravel.

Live loudly, without fear of the unknown,
And wherever you go — make it your home.
Allow yourself to grow, to change, and expand.
Learn everything about everything — learn as much as you can.

If it’s not in your control, let it pass — let it go.
Keep the lessons as reminders, practise how to say “no.”
Be flexible with your time — even more with expectation,
But strong in your belief, and your moral foundation.

Assume people are good — then believe what they show.
Watch for their actions — that’s how you will know.
Be inspired by the world, and all that surrounds.
Seek out the beauty — in imperfection found.

Make mistakes — and make many, as often as you can.
Take the time that you need — to learn from each of them.
Be curious, and courageous — in all that you do.
Listen first, before speaking — when spoken to.

Find solace in solitude — there is strength in being alone.
Know when you can, and can’t, do it on your own.
Try everything at least once — don’t let opportunity go.
Have every experience — only then can you know.

That despite all of this — and when it’s still not enough,
You will find yourself drawn to that feeling of love.

So;
Love with everything you have — be honest, be true,
And when that love turns to pain — love all of that too.