There is power in not getting offended easily. When people can’t decode your emotions, they can’t manipulate them. When their strength, beauty, or brilliance doesn’t shake your sense of self they lose their grip on your peace.
You become untouchable.
When you stop playing victim, when you let life knock you down but not break you You cry. You feel it. You deal with it. And then you get up and try again. You restart, if necessary. You rebuild.
Because when you know you’ve done your part when you’ve shown up, loved right, been kind, treated people how you would want to be treated and they still broke your heart? That’s not on you.
They weren’t meant to stay. And if they were, they’ll come back when they’re ready if they’re ever ready.
But in the meantime: Get up. Put your life together. Because life and time don’t pause for anyone to piece themselves back together.