i was having a conversation with one of my friends, he said his loyal to his wife yet he has a mistress here. so this though comes in mind. relationship is really indeed complex, like now there is a throuple, open relatioship and etc... so for me loyalty is for one, that is for sure. like i said before i don't like to share what's mine. i respect everyone's view in relationsip, that is why i never voice this out to my friend. because my matter is a different matter.