I have written about this before, but somehow didn't get it right My perceived brusqueness made them think of Cracow, they had fled, their relatives lost in the turbulence of a war where they, as civilians, but Jews had their life made into nightmares. There was a small sweet shop near my café, selling my chocolate with nuts, so one day, I walked in there to buy a bar of chocolate The man behind the counter bent down and changed his hat. His wife reached out and tried to give me a sweet. The man wore a Panama hat I spoke English to them, which eased the situation, this tall ****-looking person was not a ghost from the past, just a person with a sweet tooth. I bought the chocolate, and we shook hands, told them I was in business to had a café near them, The sweet shop had visitors, and the chocolate I bought had been in the shop too long; it was green. But when I left the shop, I felt they didn't want me to come back, I reminded them too much of the horror of Cracow.