If self love was a song it would look like comforting my inner child looking at her with love listening to her cries feeling her joy pulse out of her in her beautiful curls from age three and on it would look like claiming myself saying goodbye to toxicity treating myself as number one saying goodbye to the energy vampires narcissits doing the things that makes my heart leep with joy it feels like dancing my *** of f in the kitchen hugging the trees in the park like no one is watching petting the cats allowing my freaky flag to fly telling my child that she is always always so safe with me hugging her ,crying with her validating her feelings learning to respect my no's and learning to be my own safe space it feels like sunshine freckles beaches warm water reading all of the fantasy romance books and feeling finally happier and freer.