If I put all my worth into someone else when that doesn’t work out, I’ll lose yourself. If my happiness relies on another person when they can’t be available to me I will lose my happiness. I have a full life with many avenues to choose. People are fickle and unpredictable. I decide how I spend my time. Isn’t that wonderful! It does not rely on someone else’s mood. I will no longer put someone else on a pedestal, including myself. Because I make mistakes. I will learn to forgive. Live and let live!