We are all on our own journey, seeking to find the truth, so don't take things personal. I have found that in order to really grow as a soul , you have to come to an understanding that no matter what someone else has done to you, no matter who you wish them to be, people are who they are. And the less you expect from them, the less you are can be hurt by them. And remember sometimes people try to expose what's wrong with you, because they can't handle what's right about you. Jon York 2019